Fairness

fairnessMuch is written about Trust in leadership. Trust has many facets.

Here’s one: Fairness.

Fairness is a polite word with powerful synonyms: integrity, decorum, goodness, honor, duty, humanity, decency, give and take.

And its antonyms pack a real punch: deception, bias, falsehood, immoral, lying, rudeness, disregard, disrespect, wrong.

There are always occasional life-isn’t-fair situations. In this case, I’m talking about chronic bias, partiality and imbalance of fairness as a pattern that creeps into organizations or business relationships.

Fairness is defined as equal application of values. It’s root word is rendered as “what is right”. There is no distinction between what is right and fairness.

For those on the receiving end, the documentary, “Monkey Puzzle” confirmed how hard-wired fairness is in all of us. When a monkey’s companion received a tastier or larger food reward for performing an identical task, the first monkey became agitated, refused food and chose to go hungry rather than accept the lesser reward.

Fair treatment outranks self-interest.

Humans have a similar built-in mechanism. Studies show that people revolt, act out and subtly ‘punish’ leaders who treat them unfairly. Journalist and political commentator Brit Hume said, “Fairness is not an attitude. It’s a professional skill that must be developed and exercised.”

When there are double-standards in an organization–one set of rules for executives, another set of rules for everyone else–people notice. They become frustrated and distracted.

As the CEO, it would be wise to think honestly and deeply on this topic. Self-scrutinize whether you promote fair and consistent application of values, or whether you overlook or make excuses for violators in your organization’s high places. Do you turn a blind eye to avoid uncomfortable and hard decisions with your direct reports when warranted? Do you inconsistently and selectively apply values while subjecting others to the deflating experiences of double standards?

If Yes, it is imperative to understand that you may have indeed earned ‘punishment’ from others in covert forms as expressions of their mistrust. Stop blaming them and hold yourself accountable first. Take another look at the synonyms and antonyms to fairness above. Decide to take steps to change, grow and stand tall as a leader.

Fairness may not be as sexy as wielding power but in the end, the path to gaining, maintaining and recovering Trust from others is paved in it.

Courage = Fear + Action

Oxford Leadership’s Carl Lindeborg speaks fabulously on the topic of Courage in business. Moving and inspiring, a few of his highlights:

  • The reason for indecision or non-action in business is Fear.
  • We are born with only two fears: Fear of falling, and Fear of high pitch sounds. All others are learned.
  • Yielding to fear makes us less smart. According to an HP study, it reduces our IQ by 10%.
  • The root word for Courage is Latin for “Heart”, Courage comes from the heart and the fear we must overcome is very personal.
  • Courage is defined as being fearful but taking action anyway. The formula: Courage = Fear + Action
  • When fearful, we tend to focus on Getting. Getting something for ourselves. Connected to ego, ‘Getting’ blocks us from seeing the big picture of a situation or opportunity.
  • Focus instead on Giving. Giving something to others. ‘Giving’ is disconnected from ego and expands us to reach outside our comfort zones.
  • If we don’t expand, we shrink.
  • Fears are reduced when our focus shifts from Get to Give.

courage4We love Carl’s points and offer our own as follows:

We believe Courage is choosing the Hard Right over the Easy Wrong.

What’s Wrong is often Easy. Easy carries no Fear, no risk. Contentment fosters the status quo and we learn to live with its many consequences. Without fear, things are very Wrong. Comfort shrinks us as leaders.

What’s Right is often Hard. Hard because we feel Fear. Of getting it wrong, Of getting judged. Of making changes. Fear aches. Courage is feeling the Fear and taking action anyway because it’s Right. The ‘hard’ expands us as leaders.

Look fear in the face. Stare it down. Call it out. Move past it and take action.

Because in the end, Courage is liberating. Courage is freedom.

Reassuring Values

The actions of a Germanwings pilot is a powerful example for corporate CEOs.

The day after this week’s crash, Germanwings flight crews were given the choice whether or not to come to work.

Time magazine reports that before take-off on a particular post-crash flight, the pilot addressed very nervous passengers from a microphone at the front of the plane. He introduced himself and admitted to feeling uneasy himself, not knowing the circumstances surrounding events the day before.

blue-sky-1He said he and the crew were there voluntarily, that the company didn’t force anyone to be on duty that day, that he double-checked the plane himself that morning. He said he has family, kids and a wife who loves him and that he knew passengers and the crew have loved ones too. He promised he’d do everything possible to get everyone to their destination safely.

Passengers listened silently. No one was checking text messages, chatting or reading. No one asked for the pilot’s credentials, how long he’d been flying or exactly how he would handle a crisis.

After his address, they applauded.

Germanwings has strong quality flight and safety standards. Still, one of their flights went down the day before.

This pilot addressed his passengers as a competent professional–and a man of compassion. With presence of mind, he understood their feelings. He chose to be seen and heard when it mattered.

He considered it part of his job to personally check the plane and to visibly assure those onboard that they were safe in his care and why. That the crew under his command could be trusted as well.

And while a crash was highly improbably, he knew that heart-stopping flashes of wonder during turbulence would hardly be described as a quality flight.

He had their physical, mental and emotional safety in mind.

In all probability, you are a trustworthy CEO whose personal and corporate values reflect deep interest in providing a safe, rewarding and quality work experience for all your people.

Because values are an experience, not a set of slogans.

Lions, Mice and Leaders

roaring lionWhat lions are roaring in your world? What mice are scampering across your floors?

A friend visited Africa and said that a lion’s roar is frightening, freezing one in place or causing a surge of adrenaline to run.

Are you a fearful leader? You should be.

Fear is a healthy, protective emotion. Fear keeps business safe. Fear prevents a wise leader from saying, “That’s a kitten outside our door; not a 500 pound man-eating big cat.” Fear forces leaders to prepare, to get equipped with a plan, or in some cases, run.

Roaring lions surround every organization in the food industry: Consolidation, competition, new customer behaviors and expectations, low growth, globalization, talent management, speed of technology, strong and weak dollar…all occurring with increased velocity. Grasping their implications and exercising sound judgment–both fast and good–is critical to acting wisely and in time to safeguard the business.

miceAnxiety, on the other hand, is a very different emotion often confused with fear. Anxiety is like the mouse scampering across your floor…personal dread overshadows danger. Anxiety clings to all forms of self-preservation amid losses or bad outcomes.

Anxiety, not fear, can take over in situations when our skills, talent, problem-solving ability, knowledge, ideas, judgment, even lovability may be tested and exposed.

Scampering mice are found in every organization too: Delayed decision-making, sidestepping hard conversations, failing to speak out or step up, lack of accountability, personal posturing, inflated egos, refusing to forgive, refusing to be wrong, failure to self-correct, unwilling to accept feedback.

In summary, Leadership Anxiety seeks to protect oneself. Leadership Fear seeks to protect the business.

All of us struggle with both.

So back to those lions and mice. Blogs have much to say about Courage. That’s good. But it’s up to each one of us to reflect on where and how courage can be applied–either in response to the roar of big cats or scampering little rodents in this habitat called the Business World.